Our Love Story
The first day of deer season was the day Ed Bender arrived in Everett, PA to start a new job in 1966. Ed was a Civil Engineer, who graduated from the Pennsylvania State University in 1964, and was from Philadelphia, PA. Ed's new position was to assist with the construction of Everett's Levee project which was in progress. Alan whetstone was in charge of inspecting the construction work. Ed and Allen Whetstone were employed by the Pennsylvania Department of Forest and Waters. The Department of Forest and Waters designed the flood control project and oversaw construction and contractor payment. While Ed was working on the project he stayed at the Carolyn Court Motel.
Ed did not know anyone in Everett except for Allen and his wife, Nancy Whetstone. The Whetstone's owned the Union hotel and lived in an apartment on the second floor. On occasions they would have Ed to their place for dinner. Allan and Nancy also took turns bartending at the Union Hotel, but when they were unable to bar tend, they hired William (Bill) Swartz. Ed and Bill also became friendly, and soon Bill had an idea. He wanted Ed to meet his daughter, Karen.
It was a cold wintery Friday evening when this meeting took place. Karen Swartz, at the time, was a second year nursing student at Altoona Hospital School of Nursing in Altoona, PA. Karen occasionally came to Everett on weekends to visit her family. Her father suggested to Karen that he had someone he wanted her to meet, so the meeting took place downstairs at the Union Hotel Bar.
The rest is history. Karen and Ed were married on October 19, 1968 in Everett, PA. They just celebrated their 41st wedding anniversary. They are the parents of a son and daughter plus a lovely son and daughter-in-law, and also have five grandchildren. Their 41st Anniversary was spent aboard a lovely Holland American cruise ship, named the "Statendam." This ship cruised from Florida through the Panama Canal to California.
Karen and Ed have recently revisited the Union Hotel. They were very impressed by the beautiful recent renovations made by owner Travis Collins. They were given a tour of the Union and were totally amazed at the attention to detail and how lovely the Union Hotel had turned out! The Union Hotel is truly a "Grand Lady", a wonderful asset to Everett, PA and the county and a great place to meet. Just ask Ed and Karen!
Thanks for your hard work and vision!
Karen and Ed
10/20/09